I dont know about you, but I tend to enjoy getting credit when I do stuff for others. And I dont think Im alone in appreciating thank you cards and words of gratitude.
I also know, however, that theres something to be said for anonymity. This must be a good way to give, because Jesus endorsed it.
Thats why I was impressed with a gift that arrived anonymously on our front porch one day. We had been out of town; and when we returned, there stood several flower potseach holding a blooming sunflower. We knew the reasonthey were left on our doorstep on the birthday of our late daughter, Melissa, who loved sunflowers. Someone was telling us, We remember Mell. By giving anonymously, they focused completely on our family rather than on themselves.
Imagine a world in which we all gave generously and selflessly. Jesus mentioned secret giving in Matthew 6. He said, When you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, that your charitable deed may be in secret (vv.3-4).
Realistically, we cant always give anonymously. But our giving should always be marked with the same spirit of selfless humility and God-directed charity.
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Teach a man/boy to fish, how to build a fire, how to to plant a garden, or farm, how to raise chickens, how to cook, how to shop for healthy foods, etc., these are all needed skills. Equip them mentally to have a vision of the future for their self... All taking responsibility for their own life.
We throw money at people that have no skills and think we are doing a good thing, which helps them for the day, or week, or two only. It might make us feel good about our self for a few minutes.
To give them some way to support their self and a family is a MUST. To do less is failure. MO
It gives the government an excuse to ever grow and need more monies's for welfare. Bad plan. MO If they are able bodied, I agree with Paul in 2 Thessalonians 3:10 (King James Version) "10.For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat."