Grilling?
What the hell is that??? BBQ is the term...anything else is for gays and women.
Depends on where you are from. In Eastern North Carolina — the combined Nirvana and Mecca of barbecue — barbecue is a noun. It you tell somebody to come over for barbecue and you serve them anything other than pit cooked chopped pig with vinegar based sauce they will be highly pissed and immediately recognize you for a yankee or an idiot. Anything else cooked on a grill is grilled chicken, fish, whatever.
That’s just the way it is.