Agree wholeheartedly. Things yelled in secret/behind marriage doors shouldn’t be aired for the world to see. Yes, what he said is vile but I’d wager 95% of the people here have said similar repulsive things are some point in their lives.
They aren't married.
His anti Semitic rants were not behind closed doors.
His called a female police officer “sugar tits” was not behind closed doors.
Anyone who is defending or looking for excuses for this sad excuse of a human being, ask yourself why.