It’s considered good form to ping someone when you mention them.
It's also not considered good form to advocate or to make light of spousal abuse.
I know that women can be just as viscous as men. And I don't tolerate it. I expect good *people* to hold everyone to a certain standard, HG.
Over the years I've know you to be a sensible man and you've made some very wise points. I'm very disappointed in your calm acceptance of such vile, abusive behavior.
I'll expect better behavior from you (as I know you to be a better man than this) in the future.