I believe that too, Conor. But I think in Heaven, that they can’t see bad things that happen down here, do you? Because Heaven is a peaceful place with no more worries. And if they could see the bad things, it wouldn’t be Heaven.
By the way, I just figured it out that I was a grandmother at 49 and again at 51 and thats all the grandchildren I have! My youngest son doesn’t have children. His first marriage lasted 10 years and then a divorce and he’s never married again. He says he looks every day....LOL! He had one serious relationship since his divorce and it didn’t work out in the long run. He’s says “she’s out there somewhere”.