Wow. I wouldn’t post another thing about your “gardener”. You may find strangers holding bouquets and little velvet boxes showing up on your doorstep.:)
Not a chance especially after yesterday when I emptied her bank account and bought her a new car. The old one was a 1995 Riviera and she was starting to get restless about the struggle to get 2 or 3 of her Blued Haired Church ladies in the back seat so they go to lunch one Saturday a month...