Posted on 06/08/2010 1:58:31 AM PDT by LibWhacker
KNOXVILLE (WATE) - A Knoxville man was minutes from proposing to his girlfriend on a hike in Western North Carolina Friday when she was struck and killed by lightning.
"Everything went black. I was spun 180 degrees, thrown several feet back. My legs turned to jelly. My shoes were smoking and the bottom of my feet felt like they were on fire," Richard Butler said.
For a moment, he said he thought he was the only one hit by the bolt of lightning.
However, it was his girlfriend Bethany Lott, 25, who took the direct hit. She was hiking just a few feet in front of him.
"I crawled to her, rolled her over. They say she was gone automatically, but I tried CPR for probably 15 minutes," Butler says.
He says they were nearly to the top of Max Patch Bald, a place Bethany was taking him for the first time.
The bald is on Max Patch Mountain, 40 miles west of Asheville in the Pisgah National Forest. The Appalachian Trail crosses it.
Friday was supposed to mark the beginning of the couple's life together. Butler had a ring and was planning to propose.
"I picked that spot because she actually said she would like to get married there. She absolutely loved the outdoors. Her last words, about 30 seconds before it struck us, she turned to me and said, 'God baby, look at it. Isn't it beautiful?'"
Butler says Lott loved nature and saw beauty in everything around her.
He's struggling with her unexpected death, but says, "I've tried to be mad at God, but I can't do it. I feel like it is my obligation to her to be as happy as I can be and be as productive with the rest of my life as can be and do as much good as she would've done if she could have."
Butler says after the lightning strike, a couple named Dean and Mary Farmer, from Knoxville rushed to help them at the risk of their own lives.
After news reports, Butler was able thank them. At first, he only knew their first names.
Butler's feet were still so swollen Monday, he had to cut off part of his tennis shoe.
Services for Bethany Lott are planned for Tuesday at Coffey Funeral Home in New Tazewell. The family will receive friends from noon to 2:00 p.m.
That’s my neck of the woods and my wife and I hike Pisgah trails all the time. Condolences. RIP.
I can remember as a kid in the 1960s...whenever a severe lightning storm would roll in...my dad, the farmer, would stop all operations and we’d retreat to the shed or carport. There was a healthy respect. We had a dozen cows killed one night...all sitting under a tree as lightning struck.
As I look around today, I don’t see that respect. Folks will still play baseball...hike...sit under trees in a storm...and work in a open field.
Prayers going up and this is so sad.
What does that chart represent? Deaths in NC? US? World?
Source?
Thanks.
Dreadful. RIP.
I was watching the Weather Channel on Sunday. They had a video of a bunch of people playing volleyball in a lightning storm. The Weather Channel wasn’t exactly calling them idiots but you get that idea.
I Know Max Patch Bald
Beautiful location, stunning views
I can see a lightning strike there...
Broad dome top
If you were on the mountain as
the storm rolled in
there would be no place to hide
I've been up there a few times myself. We'd come up from the Del Rio side but haven't ever hiked it. Lightning is bad news on a mountain top. Thing of it is you really might not realize the danger as it's been known to hit quite a considerable distance from where you hear an approaching storm.
I follow a lot of trail journals of hikers on the Appalachian Trail. I’ve read many times of them running to get off the ridges and balds like Max Patch when they see lightning.
Such a sad story.
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