If the bride wants Elton John, and you can afford it, you get Elton John. There’s no wiggle room in this.
If one married a gold digger, that's true.
It's been fascinating to read all throughout the weekend, not just FReepers, but so many in the lamestream who seem not to recognize that the bride designs the wedding, the only job the groom has to do (and sometimes is allowed) is to show up at the church on time.