You’re not a parent, are you?
I’ve never had an abortion or cancer, either.
And I’m pretty sure I can speak to the heinousness of both without having to live them.
So seriously, don’t give me that “you don’t know my life” crap. My sister has three, and they’re all very well-behaved. Better than we three were, in fact.
So yes, I am well aware that it can be done. It’s what the parent chooses to do about it that’s the point.
I am and x has it right imo.