. I don’t know how women who support abortion can also be “good mothers”. Thats a contradiction.
Let me give you an example then: I know a woman who says she's pro-choice. Yet, when faced with a potentially lethal pregnancy of her own, she chose to take the risk, wore a heparin pump for 7 months, stayed on bed rest, and despite a blood clot and a couple of scary hemorrhages that were controlled, but not without permanent damage, gave birth to a baby girl.
See, to you, she's a bad mother because she claimed to be pro-choice. To me, actions speak louder than words, and despite her obligatory liberal claim of being pro-choice, she's really not. Her actions speak louder than any woman who claims to be pro-life but has never been tested.
You need to include the fact if she votes for pro-abortion politicians/referendums.
Voting is an action, and if she votes to continue the practice, your little anecdotal “example” is meaningless.
The flip side is a woman who had gone through an abortion but later regretted and worked to end the practice, which includes voting for pro-life positions.
What does God say about promoting evil ideologies but doing works in which the individual (Or others around) deem as godly? Regurgitation, since they continue to promote evil.
Also, debating outside of “academia” is vital because it causes other people to actually think. Go along to get along while admiring the Satanic intentions is a cowards way of life. Challenge everyone who makes themselves known first to a certain position. Don't push initially, but constantly question and constructively criticize all that is around us.
The “nobility” you promote of subservient unobtrusiveness while letting the barbarians run over you is a sad way to go through life. Yes, the cult of personality is to be shunned, but one should never be silent and afraid to offend.