So, basically, the DL guys don’t see themselves as homosexual?
That's what the article tried to convey, but I am trying to figure out if they are, truly, struggling with their desire for men or just using their wives and families to maintain an acceptable status in life because deep down they know they are homosexual. I, also, wonder if they are sexually active with their wives on a routine basis. It is a great deception no matter how you look at it.