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VANITY:Just Fired Wrongly IMHO (need Christian input)
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Posted on 05/10/2010 2:21:26 PM PDT by LowOiL

Today I was fired because "I wasn't a team player" and "didn't fit in". I worked for an eccentric "Christian" man in his 70's, I myself am Christian also. I will call the owner "Old Mac" for simplicity.

The place I worked as an mechanic was in a fabric mill (no more detail is needed, you know how hard the textile industry has been hit lately). The majority of the mill is illegals and some legals (from Mexico and Guatemala), with about a 30% other population of mostly white fixers and managers.

I worked a second shift and had only met "old Mac" casually before. Stories of his strange behavior ran deep but I never believed them before. Stories of how "old Mac" once saw a fellow on the loading docks lounging around and didn't like it, so he walked up to him and asked him how much he made and was answered XXX per week. Mac calculated the amount in his head, paid the fellow cash and said he was fired. The fellow took the money and left and Mac later found out he didn't even work there, he was just a delivery man.

Anyhoo... my story is one night "old Mac" came in at lunch time (we work 8 and 1/2 hours a day, 30 minutes are suppose to be lunch time and he does not pay us for it). I used to go to my truck and eat lunch in the cab in the parking lot. I would "allow" the "illegals" to go outside too since it was their lunch time too. I didn't see there was any problem, since he wasn't paying them. Old Mac came in and was furious, he did not want "little Mexico" outside his doors and that they were in the mill and he could be fined XXX amount of dollars. They were not in the mill, but they could be he reasoned. I was flabbergassed, I couldn't believe he was doing this. He often ran the air system so the illegals could run their machines during their "lunchtime" but any work they did was not time and a half pay like the law requires. Also us fixers (me and another fellow) were expected to repair the machines during our "lunchtime" and not being paid for it.

I asked "old Mac" if he owned us during the time that he was not paying us, he slowly looked at me and said I was "not being a team player" and that "it set a bad example for the Mexicans" at lunchtime and that they were NOT allowed to go outside whatsoever.

I told "Old Mac" that it was not right to keep me his "slave" during the time he was not paying me. He grumbled off and today I was told I was fired. I was handed my paycheck for the last week and told to leave. I argued that he was not "Christian" what he was doing and that I would bring up the subject to his church on Sunday.

I went to get my supplies and tools and booklets and say bye to everyone and as I left the back door I smelled tire smoke. A police officer had just tore into the parking lot and was waiting close to where I was parked. I guess "old Mac" had called the police on me. I never said a curse word, I never even called him anything more than "Sir". I was Christian about the whole affair, but I was not ran over by him like he wanted me to be.

My question fellow Christian Freepers is this... What is the precedence (protocol) for presenting my case to his church. I do not belong to his church (Baptist) but I am a fellow Baptist of a neighboring church. I have read before somewhere that I am allowed to address their church elders and then I am allowed to address the church next if that fails. I have talked to their pastor (nice fellow) and he said actually I had no Biblical right to talk to their church in that manner since I was not a member.

I seek godly knowledge from fellow freepers.

Please.


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KEYWORDS: fired; illegals; jesus; job; textile; unemployed; unemployment
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To: LowOiL

“Old Mac” may think he is a Christian, but he is due someday for a most rude awakening.

The Lord’s children do not behave like that.

Read Jon’s first epistle, and Paul’s 1Corinthians, ch 13.

You spoke the truth, and that is all you can do.
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201 posted on 05/11/2010 8:58:07 AM PDT by editor-surveyor (Obamacare is America's kristallnacht !!)
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

“You knew he was nuts, and yet you argued with him.
Sounds like you didn’t really need the job, to me.”

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Really?

You’ll love the ‘America’ that’s just around the corner...


202 posted on 05/11/2010 9:01:09 AM PDT by editor-surveyor (Obamacare is America's kristallnacht !!)
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To: porter_knorr
" “did anyone ever tell him, not to say “eff off””

The moment I read that I thought, "...must be kalifornia..."

Then I clicked your name, sho-nuff!

Thanks again for your wisdom.

203 posted on 05/11/2010 9:05:40 AM PDT by oprahstheantichrist (The MSM is a demonic stronghold, PLEASE pray accordingly - 2 Corinthians 10:3-5)
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To: oprahstheantichrist
bullies are also great at making us feel we're the crazy ones. I needed the sanity of others' objectivity.

Ain't that the truth! They use fear and intimidation but it's up to us to not allow that to take hold because it's strictly from the pit.

There is NO way this guy can ruin your son's career and your son will prove him wrong by not allowing that lie to take hold. He'll hold his head up high, smile and ask for the reference letter to be signed, wish his boss well, go to unemployment office and he's on his way to a better job in due time.

When it comes to his career, this is just a blip on the screen. Being you son is young, one day he may even hire his old boss. Life is funny that way.
204 posted on 05/11/2010 9:12:53 AM PDT by presently no screen name ( Repeal ZeroCare!)
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To: ourcountryback

You have much to learn :o)


205 posted on 05/11/2010 9:16:33 AM PDT by editor-surveyor (Obamacare is America's kristallnacht !!)
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To: calex59

“God expects us to help ourselves.”

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Most assuredly not! - Read Matthew ch6.


206 posted on 05/11/2010 9:21:13 AM PDT by editor-surveyor (Obamacare is America's kristallnacht !!)
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To: presently no screen name

Thank you SO MUCH for that encouragement, I’m printing your post to stick it under his nose!

Blessings,
OTAC


207 posted on 05/11/2010 9:28:30 AM PDT by oprahstheantichrist (The MSM is a demonic stronghold, PLEASE pray accordingly - 2 Corinthians 10:3-5)
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To: oprahstheantichrist

Since your son has the Truth, he has everything. He knows his boss/enemy has the lies. We just don’t let the lies attached themselves to us with ANY belief in them. Good vs evil.

Your son wins, slam dunk!


208 posted on 05/11/2010 9:40:18 AM PDT by presently no screen name ( Repeal ZeroCare!)
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To: LowOiL

Forget the Little House on the Prairie crap. Nail his ass to the wall with La Migra!

Oh, and learn to keep your mouth shut. Even if you’re thinking it, even if you know you’re right, just find ways to make em hurt for it that can’t be pinned down on you. Nothing illegal, just small things. Don’t work as hard when being treated like a rented mule, etc.


209 posted on 05/11/2010 9:41:38 AM PDT by Fire_on_High (Trijicon, the scope of CRUSADERS!!)
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To: oprahstheantichrist; Recovering Ex-hippie
I don't know all the particulars of your son's situation but I really doubt that a bad reference will affect his career that much. Especially from a company that is in so much trouble that you expect it will be history in the near future. A bad reference from an incompetent doesn't carry much weight. And it is actionable so it's a bluff anyway.

"Have a relative call for reference ...."

You will have to thank Recovering Ex-hippie for that sage bit of advice.

210 posted on 05/11/2010 12:13:34 PM PDT by TigersEye (0basma's father was a British subject. He can't be a "natural-born" citizen.)
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To: ourcountryback

Do you smell ozone?


211 posted on 05/11/2010 12:19:56 PM PDT by TigersEye (0basma's father was a British subject. He can't be a "natural-born" citizen.)
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To: oprahstheantichrist

That was in Oregon ;)


212 posted on 05/11/2010 2:24:40 PM PDT by porter_knorr (John Adams would be arrested for his thoughts on tyrants today!)
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To: TigersEye

Thanks....

This is the first time I posted something that was considered “sage”!! I’m thrilled.

Funny how in life experiences you can help someone else after you’ve gone through something lousy yourself.


213 posted on 05/11/2010 6:07:18 PM PDT by Recovering Ex-hippie (Ok, joke's over....Bring back Bush !)
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To: Recovering Ex-hippie
This is the first time I posted something that was considered “sage”!! I’m thrilled.

Ha! I doubt that. Age imparts a little seasoning whether we want it or not. lol

It's easy to get discouraged when you're young and you hit a bump because you don't really know what's right and what is not. Not in the moral sense but in the rules of the road sense. I had a few bosses that fired me for their own selfish reasons. Needed to hire a relative, needed to cover for someone else's theft, etc.

I think more of that goes on during recessionary times when labor is cheap and plentiful. I never had one that directly threatened me like this guy though. They either covered more creatively or were just plain honest about their ill-motives.

214 posted on 05/11/2010 6:47:57 PM PDT by TigersEye (0basma's father was a British subject. He can't be a "natural-born" citizen.)
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To: dasboot

>Anger, pride, and righteous indignation are snares.

Foolishness!
indignation -–noun
strong displeasure at something considered unjust, offensive, insulting, or base; righteous anger.

Was not Jesus displaying indignation, even righteous indignation, when He overturned the tables of the money-changers in the Temple and drove them out with a scourge?

John 2:13-17 [See also: Matthew 21:11-13 & Mark 11:15]
13 Now the Passover of the Jews was at hand, and Jesus went up to Jerusalem.
14 And He found in the temple those who sold oxen and sheep and doves, and the moneychangers doing business.
15 When He had made a whip of cords, He drove them all out of the temple, with the sheep and the oxen, and poured out the changers’ money and overturned the tables.
16 And He said to those who sold doves, “Take these things away! Do not make My Father’s house a house of merchandise!”
17 Then His disciples remembered that it was written, “Zeal for Your house has eaten Me up.”


215 posted on 05/11/2010 8:12:37 PM PDT by OneWingedShark (Q: Why am I here? A: To do Justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with my God.)
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To: LowOiL

The question is not whether you were fired wrongly. The question is why you would want to be there. With all this stuff going on, you don’t need to be there.

Whether or not you were fired wrongly, someone did you a favor. Take it as a welcome change, go out and make a new and better life. All the things that you are reporting are not a part of an acceptable workplace.

There are other bosses, (both Christian and non-Christian) who are decent people. You don’t have to work for a wing nut or a boss that engages in a lot of questionable practices. If you are a good worker, and you have something to offer, don’t associate with people who have bad business practices.

Take it as a new lease on life and go for it.


216 posted on 05/11/2010 8:20:42 PM PDT by NYCslicker
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To: OneWingedShark

“Was not Jesus displaying indignation, even righteous indignation, when He overturned the tables of the money-changers in the Temple and drove them out with a scourge?”

I getcha...but Jesus is God. No man is righteous. I leave it to God to right the wrongs in my life. He is radically better-equipped to judge and mend things that I would bungle. And I have that propensity.


217 posted on 05/11/2010 9:57:53 PM PDT by dasboot (Down: up. Up: down.)
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To: presently no screen name

I do understand, and I let my own tongue fly inappropriately. I’m sorry.


218 posted on 05/11/2010 10:01:55 PM PDT by dasboot (Down: up. Up: down.)
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To: dasboot

>>“Was not Jesus displaying indignation, even righteous indignation, when He overturned the tables of the money-changers in the Temple and drove them out with a scourge?”
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>I getcha...but Jesus is God. No man is righteous. I leave it to God to right the wrongs in my life. He is radically better-equipped to judge and mend things that I would bungle. And I have that propensity.

That sounds, to me, very close to the “If I don’t try, I can’t fail” argument. That is very close to the admonition in Romans 6:1 — What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound?

A paragraph from CS Lewis’s Mere Christianity [ch 31, found here: http://www.philosophyforlife.com/mc31.htm ] sums up quite nicely what I am trying to get at:
“And yet - this is the other and equally important side of it - this Helper who will, in the long run, be satisfied with nothing less than absolute perfection, will also be delighted with the first feeble, stumbling effort you make to-morrow to do the simplest duty. As a great Christian writer (George MacDonald) pointed out, every father is pleased at the baby’s first attempt to walk: no father would be satisfied with anything less than a firm, free, manly walk in a grown-up son. In the same way, he said, ‘God is easy to please, but hard to satisfy.’”


219 posted on 05/11/2010 10:25:58 PM PDT by OneWingedShark (Q: Why am I here? A: To do Justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with my God.)
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To: OneWingedShark
Allow me to posit this thought:

A child walks by design; running or fighting patent danger, a reaction designed into the being.

A person designing a reaction to circumstances, where the divination of others’ hearts, minds, and motives are guessed at, is something very much more, no? Only God knows the heart and mind, regardless of physical or other communicative ‘tells’ perceived by the human afflicted by travails.

If I believe, and I know angels surround me, is it not better, in uncertain circumstances, to trust God to goad my conscience; the Spirit to impel my action; to allow God's timetable, purpose, and will to assemble themselves with certainty in my mind, and, thereafter, direct my response? The view to right action should appear like an opening in a defensive line... through which I, the running back, may carry the ball to the end-zone. No?

220 posted on 05/11/2010 11:19:15 PM PDT by dasboot (Down: up. Up: down.)
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