[DJ MacWoW]

I understand. And like I said, put her on the defensive. Ask her to prove what she's saying. She WILL stop when she can't do it. It may take a few times but when she can't find "proof" she'll quit in frustration. You may actually end up having pleasant conversations.

[MsLady]

That’s what I’ve been hoping but, this has been going on for awhile. I think something at some point will sink in, but, like I said I’m about at the end of it and getting very frustrated. Last thing I want to do is show anger with her. That never goes anywhere but the wrong direction.