By characterizing the false example and the true example as both being "gaffes", you weakened your use of the word gaffe in quotes and you can see the confusion caused as evidenced by the replies to you on this thread.
All we have are your words to go by.
If they lack clarity, this is what you end up with.
“gaffes” via Saturday night Live.
I’m sorry you don’t understand.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ytCEuuW2_A