I was a naval officer in a family of naval officers going back since before the last century. Officers don't put their hands on enlisted men - ever. When you're the Captain, on the bridge, you don't berate subordinates in front of their own subordinates. When you do, you're undermining your own authority.
These things don't look or read like much to an untrained observer, but to me as a retired naval officer, she reads like very bad news. I say, good riddance.
Excellent post.
I’ve run across a few ships company Lieutenant JGs that showed this kind of imbecilic behavior, one in particular comes to mind that still haunts my dreams 25 years later, but never a Senior Officer. The department heads and Senior Officers were always personable people. In fact our Captain the famed, Rear Admiral James Flatley, we nicknamed Friendly Flatley.
Now some of the Navy pilots on the other hand were stretching the sanity envelope a bit, but they were generally good guys. They had to be, there lives depended on the squids working on their A/P