which is my point. American women stop caring what they look like after they are married. the media is partially to blame as they push the mindset that a woman is supposed to gain 40-50 pounds after having a child (and in some cases, just for getting older).
it just drives me crazy... and i dare not say anything or i’m a ‘bad person’ (like that matters)
I agree with you 100 %. It drives me crazy as well. Glad I have bucked the stats :-). I feel good anyway!! You sound like an honest, insightful, up front person. Just shows if anyone calls you bad how they can’t handle the truth of the matter and how solidified the delusion is.