The funny thing is, we live in a womans world now.
Most college students are women. Most divorces benefite the women. Divorce law favors women. Most unemployd are men.
I have sons and daughters. I pray my son avoids marraige, as it might destroy him financialy. My daughters will probaly not get married because men now avoid it.
Well, the goal is to find someone with compatible values and principles, put some effort into the relationship, and hope for the best. I think both parties should be honest with each other and not seek extramarital relationships, or in other words keep their marriage vows. Why marry if the people are not going to keep their vows?
Life isn't perfect and we aren't perfect, but if we strive to be the best we can we can tip the odds in our favor.