It took this long for you to realize she's not a sympathetic figure? Women who marry rich men after they make it big should never be sympathetic figures, given that they have what I'll call a high gold digger quotient. Now, if she had been his high school sweetheart and supported him financially through many ups and downs, that would be a different story.
“they have what I’ll call a high gold digger quotient. “
Oh please. HE was the one hounding HER to go out with him! She said NO at first. She isn’t/wasn’t some floozy/groupie slobbering after him. It’s absolutely disgusting to try to knock her down to somehow hold him on his pedestal. He’s done.