There are role models and then there are role models.
One has to discriminate. One must choose. And if you choose wrong, you lose.
People who should not be role models: OJ Simpson, Tonya Harding, Bill Clinton, Sean Penn, Jane Fonda, Barbra Streisand, Michael Moore, Al Gore just to name a few...
Nothing.
Good luck finding the perfection you seek.
When you idolize humans you are setting yourself up for dissappointment.