Man, you just can't cure stupid.
Unless your wife is a cast-iron beotch-and-a-half, you have committed one of the most gigantic screw-ups in history if this is all true.
Tiger, I don't even know if that's your real name. Do you have any comprehension of what your selfish actions have set in motion? You have two children. They are flesh of YOUR flesh. They are in YOUR charge to learn how to be real persons. You have a wife who jointly created those two children with you. They deserve more than what money can buy...as any child and any family does.
YOU ARE THEIR FATHER.You are her HUSBAND. It is YOUR SOLEMN DUTY (and privilege) to be the head of a household.
My parents divorced when I was nine years old.....I never knew why, but the damage of their action still is with me fifty-three years later.
If the person we see now is the best you can do for your family, you ain't worth spit.