As a man, having once dealt with a woman who is bat poop crazy, I can see it too.
It’s not just that, though. She’s smarmy and fake. No matter how attractive she is, that just doesn’t do anything for me.
Give me Nigella Lawson any day!
Now see, you’ve just salted the watermelon! ... Sandra is the sort a batchelor seeks, while Nigella (who bites, I’m told) is the sort a man seeks for a wife and life-long companion. What a woman!