“How about having an orgasm? That’s a novel assumption..”
Yeah one would hope. However, and maybe some female freepers can back me up, isn’t the percentage of women that can reach orgasm through intercourse much lower than the percentage that can reach it through “self-induced” means?
I know I’ve read it before. Many women seem to reach orgasm easier through oral sex also. So...The quesstion is valid overall. If a woman knows she can’t or usually doesn’t reach orgasm through intercousre with a man, what motivates her to have sex?
Us married folk in monogamous relationships would like to think the reasons are good - to please their partners because they’re in love, promote intimacy, etc. However, some of the reasons may be less than good - view it as a chore or marital duty that has to be done to keep the peace, want something in return (like their husband to clean up around the house a little more) etc...
So which is it? I would like to think that most freeper gals fall into the first category. I also think, and I have no scientific study to back it up, that some women just don’t like sex very much. They still want a husband and a marriage and kids etc, they just don’t get a ton of enjoyment out of sex. Some women reqally do enjoy sex of course. But it’s undeniable that the percentage of women who don’t is vastly higher than the percentage of men who don’t enjoy sex that much.
So...freeper dudes out there that are unmarried - my only advice as a happily married man is find one of the women who actually enjoys sex. If you don’t and get married anyway, just be prepared to spend many a night with rosy palm and her five sisters.
Through my experience, there are women who actually enjoy sex. Probably more than want to admit it. There is a social stigma that women who say they enjoy sex are “loose”. And there are more than ways to skin a cat so to speak in a relationship. One doesn’t have to get too creative for both people to be happy. Not all men have the motto “he who comes first wins”, if you catch my drift.