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Secret's out: why women really have sex
news ^ | September 08, 2009

Posted on 09/08/2009 11:27:48 AM PDT by JoeProBono

FOR every woman expecting the earth to move, there are two with more practical motives.

From relieving boredom, to keeping the peace or curing a headache, women have sex for many reasons but romance and passion come rather low on the list, a new book has revealed.

One woman even admitted to having sex just so her husband would put the rubbish out.

"Research has shown most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all," Why Women Have Sex authors Cindy Meston and David Buss said.

Having apparently discounted physical attraction, the 1000 women interviewed by the Texas University professors gave a huge range of reasons for sleeping with a man.

One said she did it for a spiritual experience, proclaiming: "It's the closest thing to God."

But mostly the explanations were far more mundane, with 84 per cent admitting to having sex just to ensure a quiet life or to bargain for household chores. One woman said: "I have sex to relieve the boredom because it's easier than fighting. Plus it gives me something to do."

(Excerpt) Read more at news.com.au ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: sex
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To: JoeProBono
One woman even admitted to having sex just so her husband would put the rubbish out.

She must be really hot!
21 posted on 09/08/2009 11:41:22 AM PDT by Darteaus94025
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To: JoeProBono

“One woman even admitted to having sex just so her husband would put the rubbish out.”

Why that would mean once a week!

Hot dog!!!!


22 posted on 09/08/2009 11:42:38 AM PDT by Names Ash Housewares
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To: JoeProBono
most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all

Interesting. Is this true, ladies? Wow. I had no idea. And all these years I thought is was just me that the gals didn't like. LOL.
23 posted on 09/08/2009 11:44:12 AM PDT by irishjuggler
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To: JoeProBono

This study just confirms the old saw: Women need a reason; men need a place.


24 posted on 09/08/2009 11:44:47 AM PDT by MozarkDawg
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To: E. Pluribus Unum
Anybody who's been married more than three days knows this.

3 days? First words out of my first wife's mouth after she said 'I do' was..."Not tonight."

25 posted on 09/08/2009 11:45:16 AM PDT by Pistolshot (Brevity: Saying a lot, while saying very little.)
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To: JoeProBono

I suppose it’s too much to suggest the possibility that women have sex because they enjoy it....?


26 posted on 09/08/2009 11:45:38 AM PDT by r9etb
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To: pallis

Yeah bummer for your wife.

I found this out when I was young too.
So I chose to keep the peace in my home by staying single and chaste.

I would like to know if most men get offended and why when the woman says Thank You after a pleasurable encounter.


27 posted on 09/08/2009 11:46:43 AM PDT by Global2010 (Strange We Can Believe In)
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To: JoeProBono

My cynical opinion of the reason women have sex: $


28 posted on 09/08/2009 11:47:05 AM PDT by ozzymandus
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To: JoeProBono

29 posted on 09/08/2009 11:47:15 AM PDT by TSgt (I long for Norman Rockwell's America.)
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To: JoeProBono

I have lived most of a lifetime with young women who wanted nothing more than to take advantage of my once virulent body and also, my good nature. It was a sickening sight when I was a younger man.


30 posted on 09/08/2009 11:47:40 AM PDT by Neoliberalnot ((Freedom's Precious Metals: Gold, Silver and Lead))
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To: irishjuggler

It’s rubbish, sir irish! We DO find men sexually attractive, and I’m sure you are both a hunk and a nice fellow.. women are probably just intimidated by the fact you are an intelligent conservative...stop dating liberal chicks and you’ll be fine! ;)


31 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:15 AM PDT by Awestruck (Now if we can only get the rest of the "republican" leaders to stand up to the liberals.)
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To: Pistolshot

Why do brides smile walking down the isle? Because they will never [insert sexual remark here] ever again.


32 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:19 AM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: JoeProBono

What’s the old saying...”Women give sex for love and men give love for sex.”


33 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:33 AM PDT by traderrob6
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To: Global2010
I would like to know if most men get offended and why when the woman says Thank You after a pleasurable encounter.

Sure we do, especially when we're expecting a 15% tip. ;)

34 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:40 AM PDT by Tijeras_Slim
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To: JoeProBono
One woman said: "I have sex to relieve the boredom because it's easier than fighting. Plus it gives me something to do."

Then I have the perfect anniversary or birthday gift for her: A vacuum cleaner and maybe even a cordless drill.......

35 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:46 AM PDT by Hot Tabasco (Who's your Long Legged MacDaddy?)
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To: Names Ash Housewares

Trash goes out twice a week at my house.

PLUS, recyclables on Wednesdays!


36 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:51 AM PDT by PBRSTREETGANG
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To: 21twelve

See if she angles it at the television. Also check to see if she’s got the remote control in her hand when she starts making love.


37 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:53 AM PDT by Richard Kimball (We're all criminals. They just haven't figured out what some of us have done yet.)
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To: JoeProBono
I've been married for 39 years and was told by a wise old man to put a quarter in a big jar every time we had sex for the first year of our marriage.After the first year I was to take a quarter out of the jar every time we had sex.

It's been 39 years and I still have my jar of quarters!!

38 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:55 AM PDT by oldsalt (There's no such thing as a free lunch.)
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To: JoeProBono

I don’t believe the results. Although the statements may be true, the truth is it’s about relationship. Duh!


39 posted on 09/08/2009 11:48:57 AM PDT by sr4402
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To: r9etb

Only if they are single. You need 3 or 4 to date cause they only get sexy a few days out of the month.


40 posted on 09/08/2009 11:49:02 AM PDT by screaminsunshine (!!)
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