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Secret's out: why women really have sex
news ^ | September 08, 2009

Posted on 09/08/2009 11:27:48 AM PDT by JoeProBono

FOR every woman expecting the earth to move, there are two with more practical motives.

From relieving boredom, to keeping the peace or curing a headache, women have sex for many reasons but romance and passion come rather low on the list, a new book has revealed.

One woman even admitted to having sex just so her husband would put the rubbish out.

"Research has shown most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all," Why Women Have Sex authors Cindy Meston and David Buss said.

Having apparently discounted physical attraction, the 1000 women interviewed by the Texas University professors gave a huge range of reasons for sleeping with a man.

One said she did it for a spiritual experience, proclaiming: "It's the closest thing to God."

But mostly the explanations were far more mundane, with 84 per cent admitting to having sex just to ensure a quiet life or to bargain for household chores. One woman said: "I have sex to relieve the boredom because it's easier than fighting. Plus it gives me something to do."

(Excerpt) Read more at news.com.au ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: sex
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To: DaveTesla

She shouldn’t take her sign so seriously. Seriously she needs some deco’s...............or something.


101 posted on 09/08/2009 12:46:36 PM PDT by Neets (Go Yankees!!!)
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To: JoeProBono

I don’t care why they do it, as long as they do it.


102 posted on 09/08/2009 12:47:24 PM PDT by Lancey Howard
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To: Repeal 16-17
You mean they don’t do it because they think I’m a Greek God?

Which one would that be? Alastor? ;^)

103 posted on 09/08/2009 12:47:37 PM PDT by Just another Joe (Warning: FReeping can be addictive and helpful to your mental health)
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To: ransomnote

I was talking about a crazy eyed women with that creepy look in her eyes.


104 posted on 09/08/2009 12:47:48 PM PDT by American Constitutionalist
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To: Repeal 16-17

Perhaps not Zeus, but Thor...VERY Thor indeed.


105 posted on 09/08/2009 12:49:16 PM PDT by Pharmboy ( "Freedom is not free... but the U.S. Marine Corps will pay most of your share.")
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To: JoeProBono

bm


106 posted on 09/08/2009 12:49:53 PM PDT by Vision ("Did I not say to you that if you would believe, you would see the glory of God?" John 11:40)
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To: ArrogantBustard

I don’t want to ruin the light hearted fun of enjoying an ironic photo so you may want to skip reading this.

I look at that picture and see a damaged soul, fragile, humiliated etc. Hard to say how attractive that protester is - she seems to reject her own appearance. She’s unusually pale and it looks like there are circles under her eyes. She has de-emphasized her femininity every way she can. What if she was tanned, smiling, wore make up, stood with confident, relaxed posture - she might be attractive. Judging by her body language and her ‘need’ for that sign - she seems like a person with awful problems. I hope the cheerleader type was genuinely gentle in offering her a soda - and not catty.


107 posted on 09/08/2009 12:51:43 PM PDT by ransomnote
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To: ransomnote

Great, refreshing post. Thank you for appreciating men for being men. Men of all types, just for being men.

Thank you.


108 posted on 09/08/2009 12:52:26 PM PDT by CSM (Business is too big too fail... Government is too big to succeed... I am too small to matter...)
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To: ransomnote
Wide Eyed Innocent Southern Belle/adulterous sexual predator.

I met her! She was so fond of calling me her Dixie Chicken...

109 posted on 09/08/2009 12:53:13 PM PDT by frithguild (Can I drill your head now?)
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To: CSM

It is, quite literally, my pleasure.


110 posted on 09/08/2009 12:54:24 PM PDT by ransomnote
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To: RandallFlagg; All
whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all This women does not find men with beer guts sexually attractive at all. That rules out a lot of men for me. As far as others, it's a case by case issue. Some men are incredibly sexy, others are just there. A tip, self confidence without being arrogant is VERY sexy. Thanks for the ping RandallFlagg. PS, how is your self confidence?
111 posted on 09/08/2009 12:55:19 PM PDT by LuvFreeRepublic
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To: John W

No, I’m not that good at math.


112 posted on 09/08/2009 12:57:07 PM PDT by brwnsuga (Not a Slave!)
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To: ransomnote
What if she was tanned, smiling, wore make up, stood with confident, relaxed posture - she might be attractive

She might indeed ... one is led to wonder to what extent her current condition was inflicted on her, and to what extent it is self inflicted

113 posted on 09/08/2009 12:58:04 PM PDT by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilization is Aborting, Buggering, and Contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: JoeProBono
"It's the closest thing to God."

I am very familiar with this motive anc cannot remember a time my partner hasn't cried out "Oh God, Oh God, Oh God".

114 posted on 09/08/2009 12:58:17 PM PDT by School of Rational Thought (Freedom First in 2010)
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To: brwnsuga

10,266 and that does count leap years ( subtract the dates in Excel). Unfortunately my wife doesn’t have your attitude.


115 posted on 09/08/2009 1:00:09 PM PDT by wordsofearnest (Job 19:25 As for me, I know my Redeemer lives.)
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To: JoeProBono

” whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all,”

I don’t find men reek of alcohol attractive. I do not find men who don’t shower attractive.

Other than that, I think a lot of men have sexy characteristics.

I’d be interest to see what their pool of “most men” was.


116 posted on 09/08/2009 1:02:04 PM PDT by Neets (Go Yankees!!!)
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To: wordsofearnest

Well, longevity counts for something.


117 posted on 09/08/2009 1:04:16 PM PDT by brwnsuga (Not a Slave!)
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To: ransomnote

In all seriousness, it seems that society is so completely anti men and the “typical” women I see daily have so completely absorbed it that I can’t get through a day without hearing their husbands/boyfriends just ridiculed. All day, every day. Ridicule, laugh at, complain about, simply anti man behaviour. I have tried to point it out to them and it seems that they have no clue how destructive that attitude is to their relationships. How can they behave that way without actually thinking that way? If that is how they think, then how do they treat their husband/boyfriend?

It seems that some days my heart is heavy with sadness at this situation. Many times I am not even aware of that sadness.

Then a ray of sunshine appears and burns off that fog! Your post has lightened my heart today. I very much appreciate that.

So, in conclusion, thanks again for sharing your perspective. It brought some sunshine into my life today.


118 posted on 09/08/2009 1:07:22 PM PDT by CSM (Business is too big too fail... Government is too big to succeed... I am too small to matter...)
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To: r9etb
I suppose it’s too much to suggest the possibility that women have sex because they enjoy it....?

Women have to make men believe they don't enjoy it so men will keep paying for it..been that way since Adam and Eve....("gee honey you must really hate those five orgasms I gave you...and I guess you were howling at the moon because you hated it so?...")...sorry gals...I'm too old and experienced to fall for that bull....but I guess there are guys who still fall for it....

119 posted on 09/08/2009 1:10:16 PM PDT by Niteflyr ("Just because something is free doesn't mean it's good for you".)
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To: Niteflyr

unh uh.


120 posted on 09/08/2009 1:12:06 PM PDT by Neets (Go Yankees!!!)
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