I will give you an honest answer. I know some CEOs and other guys like Sanford that do cheat. You will not like the answer.
The answer is that American women are garbage.
Now American women are not the WORST women in the world. That would be reserved for the English or Australian women. But American is essentially right up there.
Women used to be groomed for marriage. Now, they all walk around with a chip on their shoulder, both liberal and conservative women. As Ann Coulter said, “Men have jobs, but women have careers.” American women have ceased to even be feminine. A guy has to be gay to like what most American women have become. Many guys do not wish to become gay. That is why they cheat because to “love” their woman would be, essentially, becoming quasi-gay. Women, even conservative women, think it is a virtue to be unfeminine. They chop off their long hair, basically lose all sense of class, and become little more than a money grubber. They literally believe they are some sort of royalty and men are *under* them. They believe man’s destiny is to be manipulated and controlled... not unlike a beast of burden.
Remember, I’m not talking about the extreme examples such as a woman covered with tatoos. I am talking about your ordinary and regular American woman.
To marry an American woman today is suicide for men. Men do not realize this because they have been programmed, drilled into their mind, about the ‘glories of marriage’, through TV programming, through proms, etc. etc. A man becomes a beast of burden, a wage slave, a manipulated instrument which is Aristotle’s definition of a slave.
Compare a married man and a bachelor. The married man rapidly loses his hair, gets a big gut, and perhaps starts drinking. The bachelor tends to have a full head of hear, is slim and trim (not always of course), but generally has a skip in his walk. At work, the married man is stressed. At work, the bachelor tends to have a bounce in his step as well as a couple of women always prying at him.
Marriage has many, many benefits to women. But marriage is pure hell to men. Pure hell. There are NO benefits to marriage to men. Absolutely none. All there are is responsibilities. Even if the couple divorces, the woman still gets to take his paycheck. Does the divorced man still have any right to his former wife’s bed? Of course not.
The fact that this very question is being asked on Free Republic shows how dumb the women are. Do you NOT see how women are driving legal and cultural forces against men? Do you not see the double standard that if a woman sleeps with a student, she gets a slap on the wrist whereas a man not only goes to prison for a long time, he gets punished for the rest of his life by going on some sexual perversion list. In this severe recession, it is the men that are losing jobs. Why? Women have secured the ‘pink collar’ job in various institutions. Almost all consumer spending is controlled by women as advertisers all keenly realize.
Why did Rush Limbaugh get divorced three times? It was because he could afford it. Rush Limbaugh, too, bought the ‘marriage myth’. Now, he has publicly said he is never, ever going to marry again. He has wisened up.
Once you meet women from other parts of the world, a man will not go back to American women. In fact, he will actually lose attraction to American women. Their personalities, their artificial ways, the lack of class, the lack of femininity, all stand out to him. There is a reason why it is extremely rare for American women to be able to find a mate in non-English speaking parts of the world. Whereas, a non-English speaking woman can easily find an American husband. Naturally, men respond to women. American women are faux women. They are not really women.
Many of the ‘bachelor vacations’ go to the same areas... such as Argentina. Many men understand Sanford but will not say so publicly around their wives. They don’t blame him for what he did. They just thought he was stupid in how he did it.
Life is short. It eventually dawns on a man that they should be able to experience a real woman for once. It is the slave, for a brief instant, desiring to be a man. And these slaves, i.e. these married men, know how controlled and manipulated they are.
And this is why Sarah Palin must be destroyed... by both liberals and conservatives. She represents how a normal woman is which is found throughout the world except in English speaking countries. She embraces her femininity and embracing class. She likes being a woman. This is why she has enraged women from across the political divide. She is not feared because she could lead a ‘conservative movement’. She is feared because she could lead a ‘man’s movement’. She makes men start asking, “Why can’t my wife look somewhat like that as in NOT GETTING FAT?”
The nuclear family isn’t even natural. The common American family prior to the twentieth century had five plus children. It wasn’t because of lack of birth control so much as it was wives still looked good and acted like women in which the men responded.
Westernized nations are facing a demographic cataclysm of low birth rates and collapsing marriage rates. Why? It is because of the women. Who controls abortion as well as all reproductive rights? It is the women.
Women do not understand men. They do not understand that they are literally causing men to die first. And they don’t care. After all, everything is supposed to revolve around women anyway, right? This is why when a little white girl gets kidnapped, Greta is on Fox giving nonstop coverage. If it was a boy, who cares? Males are a subhuman group anyway, right? Men are expendable. Their destiny is to fight womans’ wars, to work all day to give money to women, and protect women from not realizing they are no longer women: “No, dear, you don’t look like a fat pig.” Outside America, people look on the American male with pity. This is why men are abandoning westernized countries, i.e. “Man Drain”. This is also why you won’t find any real ‘men’ today in America. It is better to act like a ‘ghost’ than be noticed by this man-hating culture.
You ask why do men cheat? I ask why they don’t.
Are you related to Maureen Dowd?
I disagree. I love my wife and I’ve been faithful to her for twenty years. She is loving, affectionate, and still seething hot. She’s a good mom, a hard worker, a good partner.
She’s also one in a freaking million.
If I had it do do over again (God forbid!) there’s no way in Hell I’d marry an American woman. American women by and large have been so propagandized and programmed by media and higher education that they are no longer women — they are Men With Breasts. Sure, there are exceptions like Mrs. Chan, but in my experience most American women are hateful bitches with the morality of a chihuahua.
I thank God every day for sending me the good wife that He did. Otherwise it’d be an Asian woman, or nothing for me.
Be well.
The answer is that American women are garbage.
Says you. As the father of a couple of American women, and the son of an American woman, I have ideas what you can do with that dumbass theory.
The married man rapidly loses his hair, gets a big gut, and perhaps starts drinking. The bachelor tends to have a full head of hear, is slim and trim (not always of course), but generally has a skip in his walk.
Baldness is entirely genetic and doesn't depend upon your marital status, stress level, or anything else short of chemotherapy. Nice try, but scientifically ignorant.
Marriage has many, many benefits to women. But marriage is pure hell to men. Pure hell. There are NO benefits to marriage to men. Absolutely none.
Balderdash. I've been married for 18 years, and it gets better every year. Probably a bit old fashioned for a forward thinker such as yourself , but it's nice to come home to a woman who loves me. I have a hunch that's nothing you'll ever understand, so you'll have to take my word for it.