It seems a shame that we have to go through all this pain and suffering, when He could have just designed us differently.
I think that is one of the hardest thing to get your head around.
There are many terrible, painful and sad things in life, and reasonable people ask, if there is a God...why?
Why does a 18 year man old die in a war before he has a chance to be intimate with a wife? Why does a 6 year old girl have a terrible, painful, wasting cancer? Why does a man who loves his wife with all his heart, have her taken away by Alzheimer’s years before she dies physically?
They are good and valid questions.