[o2bfree]

Look, brother, I don't know any more about this guy than you do. But if you don't "get" the possibility that the above poster is talking about, then you've had a very fortunate life.

Seconded. Every marriage is a two way street...And none of us have any idea what it's like to be married to Jenny Sanford. I'm not forgiving him for what he did, I'm just saying she may have played some part in this that we don't know.

The fact she didn't forgive her husband and threw him out two weeks ago after he confessed tells you a little something about her. I've heard many a sermon in my time where the minister preaches forgiveness for situations just like this. She chose not to forgive. And the rest is history.

[ellery]

The fact she didn't forgive her husband and threw him out two weeks ago after he confessed tells you a little something about her. I've heard many a sermon in my time where the minister preaches forgiveness for situations just like this. She chose not to forgive. And the rest is history.

There has to be repentance and repudiation of past behavior before there can be forgiveness. How was she supposed to forgive him -- it appears he hadn't given up the mistress!

[nfldgirl]

From what I’ve read, she’s known about Maria for 5 months now....I would think she was possibly giving him every bit of opportunity to end the relationship, but he could not bring himself to do so, and that’s why she wanted him to leave. Who knows? Maybe she gave him an ultimatum...Maria or she and the boys; and wanted him to spend time away from them to decide which way it was going to be. I for one will not be surprised at all if the marriage doesn’t make it and that he ends up in Argentina with Maria after all.

[publana]

The fact she didn't forgive her husband and threw him out two weeks ago after he confessed tells you a little something about her. I've heard many a sermon in my time where the minister preaches forgiveness for situations just like this. She chose not to forgive. And the rest is history.

Huh? She waited months before she kicked the scumbag out of the house and tried to put her marriage back together, but the scumbag continued the affair with slut. What more could this poor woman have done?