HMMMMM
How about describing your Hawaiian sightings.
The most interesting was regarding “car headlights on her bedroom wall”. When she and her siblings described it her mother said it was just car headlights, but even as a child she knew the angle on the wall was not even close based on where the road was relative to the house.
By child I mean single to double digits into late teens.
There were the physical sightings as well, but the “headlights on the wall” thing was most interesting. Oh, and before you ask, they thought about airplanes and helicopters and that was out of the question.