If you have the same level of criteria for proof that your ?spouse? loves you . . .
it’s a wonder you still have a relationship.
Actually, when it comes to UFO’s, I use this simple rule of thumb: Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.
Is it an extraordinary claim to say a woman loves her husband, or is it not a natural phenomenon?
There is a good reason that when someone shows me home movies of someone bowling a strike, I say “good job”, but when they show me home videos of a sasquatch, I need a bit more info.
All that said, I, myself saw a UFO and one of my friends saw them on a regular basis when she was a child living in Hawaii about three decades ago.
But again, on my home planet we don’t call them UFO’s.