I agree with you there - it’s probably more likely than not that he bears more responsibility for his marriage ending.
i am not a man-hater always looking to cast blame on the male, by any means. i think men are very OFTEN shafted, i just don’t think that is the case here, based on everything i have read. They have 6 children together, have been married a long time and i find it exceedingly sad that he is giving up his family in order to pursue bimbos. It cheapens someone whose work i liked, and whom i respected, but no longer.