Well, there are some women who do not want a cheap man. I don’t consider it a virtue anymore than I consider people who drive hybrid cars as virtuous. There’s nothing wrong with a woman looking for a successful spouse. Most men have levels of acceptability on a woman’s appearance, I don’t fault this woman or call her a golddigger or whore if she has an level of acceptability on a man’s spending habits. It’s her preference. So what?
When I say cheap it is in the meaning of, When you buy something, buy quality. That way you only cry once.
That carried over into other areas of my life, as in looking for a spouse.
It seems to have worked as I am going on 26 years of marriage and 28 years together with my love.