My parents sold hearing aids and really liked the tuneable aids from Starkey Labs...
A co-worker wears BTEs with a small tube that goes into her ear canal from the hearing aid - she has no trouble using the phone or listening to her MP3s. She is prone to migraines, and noises such as you describe that bother you bother her as well - I don’t know if she has noise-cancelling features in her aids but I suspect they’re available.
Question - with the amount of loss you have, is the VA an option? The provided a similar set to my boss at no cost...
A co-worker wears BTEs with a small tube that goes into her ear canal from the hearing aid
I screwed up big time.
The VA offered me the BTEs and I opted for the in ear type. They are uncomfortable and, I have already lost one doing my daily routines’.
Have talked with those who have the BTEs and they are very satisfied.
If any-one is a vet, I would suggest they go immediately and apply for one. The cuts Os’ doing with the military will stop a lot of service the VA has been providing. The info. on the cuts came to me through a VA employee.