If my mom were still alive I'd pass on your BRILLIANT advice and ask her why she didn't do what you are advocating..........
There are rare occasions where I am just plain ashamed to admit that I am a conservative and your statement has created such a moment..........
You know, I apologized if that offended you.
However, after being in the situation myself from the mom point of view, I see it differently.
Great post. No personal issues here since I do agree with the poster on most occasions. Just not this one.
This entire thread has created one of those moments for me.