No one has decided for you.
I make the case for adoption as the best option based on my understanding of the facts of Bristol’s case coupled with my commitment to social importance of the married family.
Agree or disagree, but don’t think that calling me names is going to change my mind or make your arguments more compelling.
So, let’s see if you can unclench your fist from the “Church Lady” stamp you’ve been flailing about the thread.