Pardon in what way?
My sister had her son out of wedlock 26 years ago.
He made our family, that little boy brought a family that did not know how to say “I love you” to family that after he was born never left each others company without saying those words.
My nephew is loved, by both sides of his family.
Without a father, though the father did play a factor after a couple years (when he realized what he was missing, his parents were right there for my boy) my nephew is the best.
After my daughter, Sean rates #2 in my book.
What a great boy and I kinda wonder if he would have fared as well if his parents married and had a terrible marriage.