>>The point is, *she* makes the decision and you stand with her and provide the love to the baby that a grandma should.<<
And if you look back at my posts, I never said the baby should be taken from Bristol. I said the baby should be given to an intact family.
It’s the mother’s decision. I never said otherwise. I’m saying that this is something that we should be encouraging. Instead, we encourage teen single motherhood, replace father responsibility with the government and give them High School Daycare.
A father is VERY important. A married mother to the father is extremely important. If the mother can’t provide that, give the baby to a family that can.
That sounds pretty concrete to me.
I know what its like to want a child, to want to be a mother, but don't fault a single parent for wanting the same things you do.