I don't know, i like 8th grade for Confirmation. it's about the gifts of the Holy Spirit; 8th grade is a good time to talk about that, chastity being a good topic of conversation as they are ready to head off to HS etc. it is a nice way to strengthen them, at a time when kids really seem to need it.
Yeah, right after baptism.
When I was confirmed, most people took it as an end. OK, you’re an “adult” in the faith now. No more need for CCD.
Now, they want it to be viewed as a beginning.