You are wasting your time. I will not engage in polemic, particularly not in worthless, ad hoc, rumor-mongering polemic. If you have had bad experiences, I am sorry for you. Things happen. I will not defend practices for which there is no confirmation and certainly no warrant in the rules and edicts of which I am aware. If that does not satisfy you, then you must go to someone else for satisfaction or further contention (as that appears also to satisfy something for you).
That’s very admirable. Who do you glorify?