I understand Lee's motivations for fighting on the side of the Confederacy. For a man of his social class, upbringing and standing, there was no other way, really.
But the man, through his command of his army, is responsible for the deaths of more loyal Americans than even Hitler. In terms of historical respect, he should not be placed in the same category as the Union generals who fought to preserve the Union.
I think you're confusing Lee with Lincoln.
In terms of historical respect, he should not be placed in the same category as the Union generals who fought to preserve the Union.
So, in your mind, fighting to keep a strong central government is nobler than fighting to be free from it.