I daresay that lyou got your dog some other way than through an animal organization. I had to be interviewed and undergo a home inspection and fill out a ream of paperwork and write an essay before I was allowed to pay $250 to adopt my wonderful Golden from Golden Retriever Rescue of Wisconsin.
I have 4 wonderful children and 10 delightful grandchildren, but if I pass on or (otherwise) beome unable to care for my sweet Golden none of my children can have him. I had to sign papers that he would go back to GRROW so that they can find another suitable home (or my kids could go through all the home inspection / paper signing again.)
I call that a real “adoption”.
We even have dog “reunions” twice a year where we can gather for a party so the people who “fostered” our dogs can see them again and see how they are doing. Can you imagine a room, or a park, full of 100-200 Golden Retrievers of all shades and ages? It’s quite an experience!
And I’m not confusing the affection I feel for my dog with the love I have for my children and grandchildren. I’m afraid that you are Mr. UNlucky if you can’t tell the difference. ;)
You might be surprised, but a real life is much preferable to “dog reunions”.