I have a standard service revolver, I just don't like it. Bulky and I think I shoot better than it lets me. But I intend to get some education shortly.
If you don’t like it, see what a dealer will offer in trade. Newer ladies revolvers are less bulky and easier to handle.
Best of all, it's TINY. VERY light weight (less than 10 ounces, loaded), very thin, and easy to carry in a purse or pocket. And very affordable, too... Go to the Kel Tec Owner's Group for some good posts and honest feedback about the firearm, its ability, and its reliability.
A small gun carried is infinitely better than a big gun left at home...
Revolvers are not sexy and they are for close in shooting. they have short barrels so they are not target shooting pistols. Really for shooting within 20 feet or less.
They are reliable and mistake proof in a defensive situation when people are very stressed. Someone said a Beratta Tomcat semi-auto does not have to have the slide racked. If true check that out.
Find a lady instructor or sales person at you local gun store or the NRA web site.