Sounds just like my daughter who has been busy sending applications to universities to enter aerospace engineering next fall.
Try this link
http://www.tryengineering.org/become.php?page=camps
or your state university’s Women in Science and Engineering Program. I visited a few colleges with her and being an engineer myself, I was really impressed with some of the Women in Engineering programs. She ended up only doing a 4 day engineering workshop the summer between her junior and senior year which spent time experiencing the different fields of engineering.
Never mind KayEyeDoubleDee, I work with plenty of women in the science field and never met one like she describes.
Wow, great links, thanks for the info and encouragement!