[TNdandelion]

Mmmm...I don't agree that NOT being a pushover, ragdoll, yes-girl means I'm a b*tch. Most of my friends who acted desperate became miserable in their relationships. One ended up dead. :(

First of all, you have to be able to pick the studs from the duds. Then, you have to play hard to get but not too hard to get. I do agree that you need to let them know you are interested but don't ever act like you'd sell your soul for them. I think this works both ways, though.

[wastedyears]

I wouldn’t want to play any kind of games, even hard to get.