One thing that hasn't changed is that you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.
Any man worth a d@mn won't put up with that crap, no matter how pretty, skilled, or rich a woman might be.
Ten for looks, 1 for attitude, averages out to a 1.
OTOH, I have known many women who were relatively plain in appearance, who were animated by their personality, intelligence, or sense of humor (or all of those) to appear to the knowing as absolutely beautiful.
YMMV.
***OTOH, I have known many women who were relatively plain in appearance, who were animated by their personality, intelligence, or sense of humor (or all of those) to appear to the knowing as absolutely beautiful.***
That’s what I prefer. Those are often the golden ones.