My mom was a waitress her whole life,tips matter. Especially when your father who is an alcoholic,abuser,does not work. So thanks to all who tip well. My son worked at Sam’s during high school and in the summer from college and he was NOT allow to take tips from customers he helped carry heavy stuff to the car. Most people got upset because they felt it was their right to do what they wanted with their money and made him take the tip.
Show me a restaurant where the owner’s wife is a AHEM waitress, and I’ll show you a restaurant that pools it’s tips. You will find that there is also a high turnover at these places.