So how would you feel if you had died (it can happen) leaving your wife to live the rest of her life knowing she had pulled the trigger?
Gee, that is a sunny way to look at it. how about if my wife HAD to use it and it did not work and she got killed or raped? Maybe that would be better for you. Unlike a gun, I can’t test it on targets so I thought my wife’s safety was way more important than my discomfort.
What a question!