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To: Moose4

My dad had a simple policy that worked for me. His rule was, if you get into a fight, I’m going to give you 10 licks with the belt. If you loose the fight, I’m going to give you 10 more.

I only got into one fight with a bully over a game of marbles. After doing all the “stop” and other crap the teachers taught ... I popped him in the mouth and split his lip. While I got my 10 licks, I did not get the extra 10 and I was never bothered again.


15 posted on 08/25/2008 8:52:55 AM PDT by taxcontrol
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To: taxcontrol
My father taught us this....If you can't win pick up a rock or something. Do your best because if you come home & didn't put up a good fight you will get it from me. I learned to fight back & the bullying stopped. He said don't hit first or only hit if they get so close you have no other choice.

I learned not to get involved with the bully's parents when my now older sons were young. Usually the parents were bullies themselves & of course their little darling is never to blame. Most of the time after a fight my sons & the bully ended up getting along. I found the school was usually no help. I told my children if you are hit first then by all means defend yourself. That worked. I don't like fighting but sometimes there is no other way. Telling a child to walk away isn't going to stop the bullying.

36 posted on 08/25/2008 9:11:26 AM PDT by pandoraou812 (Don't play leapfrog with a unicorn! ...........^............)
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