It cost me every penny I had. It was the best damn deal I every made in my life!
Well I can never advocate an affair, folks are in an open situation and both know fine... I won’t try to interject myself into the personal relationship of 2 people in terms of what works for them. However when you talk about willful and premeditated cheating with the lies that come with it, the breaking of trust is the harder issue than the sex I would think.
If there are issues in a marriage that are pushing a party to consider cheating its time to lay it out on the table.. if the issues continue... then something has to give, one way or another. Now whether that is divorce, or more unconventional routes... that’s between the two parties.
But I just don’t see how you justify or advocate cheating.