That is why I have waited the last year or so, wanted to make sure my feet were firmly on the ground. I have found that there are a lot of misconceptions about younger widows.
I am blessed with my friends (the committee that really runs my life) who give me great feed back, and my boy who protects his momma.
Pastor gave me great advice- “be the chooser, not the chosen” and never lower your values for anyone.
On the topic of crushes, I have enjoyed the couple I have had lately. Know nothing will come of them, just fun to feel alive again.
THAT is the part which is the most fun... to feel alive again. :) When you spend so many years caring for others....it's almost an indulgence of sorts.