{{{shudder}}}
But even if they looked like Gabriel Aubrey or Josh Holloway & wanted to become one with the sofa or gripe all the time, eventually that would get old. No matter WHAT they look like.
So basically looks are a matter of opinion & even good looking ones can be shown the door.
Thank you for saying that. Women aren’t as interested in looks as men. Women want security, and that doesn’t mean money, it means knowing the guy is for real and not a BS er; and that his head isn’t swinging every time a nice looking woman walks by, and that she is the focus of his attention. I despise arrogant men, and I do not like George Clooney, it has nothing to do with his looks, but his idiotic personality. And Godly men are very few, so some of us have had little to choose from....not that we haven’t met some great men....and not that we are looking because we all aren’t.
Men however will not be attracted without the looks, because they are visuals and women are emotionals...usually, and there is the rare one who violates the norm on both sides. Those are statistics.
If we all had the same tastes, it would be boring, not to mention crowded :-).